I love TedTalks. Some of them can be quite long, but when they pop up on my Facebook or Twitter feeds I always try to make a mental note to watch them when I get a chance. Sometimes, the little inspiration that these videos provide is just what you need to help get you through a tough day. This is possibly my favourite TedTalk that I’ve ever seen.
“Hard is not relative. Hard is hard. We need to stop ranking our hard against everyone else’s hard to make us feel better or worse.”
I spent about an hour on ted.com watching some of these videos today. I found one that sounded a lot like something that a good friend of mine told me when I was struggling with my own health in high school. It was grade 11, and this friend was my social studies teacher. She believed in me, and gave me the best advice I have ever received in my life. She told me that sometimes life gives you a gift, it just happens to be covered in shit. You have to dig through all the shit to get to the gift, but it is all worth it. Keeping in the theme that hard is not relative, and that everyone has their own struggles, this video shows that there is always light in the darkness.
“You’ll be challenged, inspired, motivated, and humbled. Your life will have new meaning.”
There’s a really great message in both of these videos. I hope you take the time to watch them :)
Another lump post of my #100happydays challenge. It’s been quite the eventful week, and I’ve just been too busy to post.
The end of day 17 – last Tuesday – I learned that the condition that my brakes on my car were in made it no longer driveable. My dad was calling his mechanic friends to see how fast someone could get it in, but everyone was quoting him a few weeks. At this point, my life looked like it was about to get pretty complicated in terms of getting to work. I work in brand new developments where there are no bus routes. Ah! I called Curtis’ mom to see if I could borrow their van for a while, and not only did they lend me the van, but Willie fixed my car at his shop the very next day. I have some really lovely family that are always there for me. I don’t know what I would do without them all.
On day 19 I developed some sort of flu, and it has stuck with me. That’s usually how it goes with me though – I stay sick for a long time. That would normally make for a pretty crappy week., but in true #100happydays fashion, I’ve been embracing the positive. I’ve stayed home a lot, only leaving the house for class or work. Since I’m home so much, I’ve gotten lots of kitten snuggles! These two are just the best. I think they can sense that I’m not feeling well, because they are giving me a ton of love.
When I’m not in bed, I’ve been on the couch working on all my assignments. I feel really pleased with how much I’ve been able to do considering how awful I’ve felt. That, and the constant distraction of Wickham staring at me. He really enjoys eye contact with his humans.
The 2014 Winter Olympics in Sochi are on as well. And nothing makes me feel more Canadian than watching the Winter Olympics. I don’t think our TV has left CBC since the preliminaries started. And since I haven’t been sleeping through the night – oh the joys of being sick – I’ve been able to watch quite a bit. I’ve kept it on during the day while I’m working as well.
Overall, the past week hasn’t been awful. I have felt awful, but there has been lots of positive moments throughout. Kittens, Olympics, and especially lots of Curtis taking care of me. He’s the best :)
The past couple days have been a complete whirlwind, so I apologize for being MIA with my #100happydays challenge posts. My life has changed quite a bit.
First, Curtis and I spent the weekend moving into our new place. We had a lot of help from our family and friends. We are officially out of the basement dungeon and into a bright, three-bedroom, main floor of a house. And we are loving every second of it.
Some areas are more organized than others, but it’s starting to come together. I finally get my own office! Curtis gets a man cave as well. I’m still waiting on most of my books – I stored them in Leduc at my grandparents when I was in moving limbo for the past month – and the office will look a little more complete. My parents are also taking care of Neville, my little bunny furbaby, and I will get him back soon as well. Just need to find time for a trip out to the farm!
Yesterday we were starting to feel pretty settled in. The living room and kitchen are more or less done, and the bathroom and our bedroom are not far behind. Just when we started to feel organized, we went and picked up the other furbabies. I was expecting chaos bringing two little playful kittens into the house – but the good kind of chaos! We were so excited to bring them home. Well, this has been about all the chaos that we’ve seen so far…
The handsome little man in the tuxedo is Leonardo DeCatrio, and the mostly white guy is Wickham. Curtis and I are so smitten with these little kittens. Leo has taken to Curtis – following him around, sleeping right on him. Wickham is my little buddy. He curls up by my feet when I’m standing and doing the dishes, he naps right next to me on the couch as I’m on my laptop, and he stares me down with his little green eyes. These two brothers are great friends. We can’t wait to watch them grow up and into our little family. Thank you so much to Zoe’s Animal Rescue Society for giving us these little furry and purring bundles of joy.
I’m still working on settling into a routine here at the new house. I’m such a creature of habit, so I feel a bit out of my element right now. It will probably take a week or two for me to settle in and feel at home. But am I ever excited that Curtis and I have our own home – devoid of roommates and with tons of space for each of us. Now I just have to go grocery shopping so we actually have something to eat!
We all have crazy busy lives. I’m sure you’ve gotten a sense of my hectic days over the course of my #100happydays challenge. It can be hard to remember everything and stay on top of everything. Little things are easily forgotten when each day’s to-do list is a million items long. I have found a system that works really well for me.
My day planner is my life – I’m sure many of you feel the same. Whether you have a book version or use something online, it’s they key to keeping track of a hectic life. Here’s a list of tips that I have developed that keep me organized:
Write everything down. Everything. I log even the smallest items into my day planner. I find that the busier I get, the more I need to remind myself to do things. Whether it be scheduling time in to study for an upcoming exam or washing my car, I write it down. When it comes to something that needs to be done, better safe than sorry!
Colour code. With writing so many entries down and trying to schedule things based upon priority, I find that colour coding is really helpful. Pink for personal things, green for assignments, blue for work, yellow for meetings and appointments, and so on. This way, if I have a really busy day – and only a few hours to accomplish a bunch of things – I can pick and choose based upon importance. It also helps when I scan forward to see what is coming up.
Bring your planner everywhere. This book is like my oxygen. I get all panicky when I realize I have forgotten to bring it along. This is where having an online system or an app is helpful – but I’m old school and opt for paper. If you have it with you at all times, you’ll never be stuck in a situation where you are trying to schedule something in advance but don’t know what you have going on.
Check items off. This is partly for gratification, partly for purpose. If you check items off once you have completed them, then you are never wondering if you actually finished something or if you did it at all. You can also look back and see what still needs to be done from a previous date. And after all that hard work to finish a task, it feels pretty good to place a check next to it.
This system works really well for me. I do admit, it is sometimes hard to stay on top of it. But nothing ever comes easy!
What tips and tricks do you use to stay organized?
It was basically the cutest thing we had ever seen. They were all tuckered out from a trip to the vet for their shots. Amanda, the foster mom, pointed out from the mass of fur our little Wickham. He was sleepy and mostly just interested in napping with his brothers and sisters, but he sure did cuddle us too!
He is such a little sweetheart. He stared me down for a while, then gave me some little kitty kisses. I guess he approves! As we were bonding with our future little family member, Amanda mentioned that there was only one kitten left that was not spoken for. As soon as she said this, I saw Curtis’ face light up. This little guy was also just sleeping away.
He would flutter his eyes open a bit every time we gave him a scratch, but promptly returned to kitten dream land. Amanda told us a bit about each of their personalities – we couldn’t really tell what the kittens were like because they were all so tired – and said that both Wickham and Darcy were super chill, and just loved to cuddle up next to her on the couch. We were sold. One look at each other, and Curtis and I knew that a decision was made. We wanted both of them!
We went straight to PetsMart after the visit and picked up all the things we needed to make sure our kittens are ready to come home to us. We also knew that we loved Wickham’s name, but we weren’t as convinced about Darcy (for a male cat). Together, we made the executive decision to call them Wickham and Leonardo…Leonardo DeCatrio. It’s happening.
Day 10 of my #100happydays challenge, and I’m especially excited about this. Curtis and I have been really looking forward to this. We decided to adopt a kitten, and did much searching around to find the perfect little furball addition to our family. We decided on Zoe’s Animal Rescue Society based here in Edmonton. They are completely volunteer run, and rely on foster homes for all of the animals that they save until they find their furever homes. We looked through their website and the list of adoptable cats, and absolutely fell in love with little Wickham. He is part of a litter that was born in the foster home after Zoe’s rescued his mom, Merry. Once Curtis and I saw his little face, we knew we had to have him. I mean, look at that face!
Zoe’s has a very thorough adoption process, as they want to make sure that they match the right people with the right animal. I guess they liked us, because tomorrow we get to go and meet Wickham! It feels like Christmas Eve for us. We have been talking about – and daily gazing at photos of – this little guy for weeks now. Tomorrow will be an exciting day!
Day 9 of my #100happydays challenge, and the assignment that has been the bane of my existence since before day 1 has finally come together. Our large research group – 14 people – has come together to create a cohesive, succinct proposal for our research. After spending all weekend editing, it is complete. Granted, this proposal is only one stepping stone in the research study that we will be conducting over the next three months – but the weight that has been lifted off of my shoulders is still immense. One more thing down, one little step closer to completing this semester, and just a bit closer to earning my degree. WHEW. I can now relax for a millisecond before I move on to the next assignment ;)
Day 8 of my #100happydays challenge, and I’m still just busy at a bee. After a long week – and weekend – of running around and trying to get all my stuff done, it’s great to just take a breather and cook a nice dinner for Curtis and I. Just a simple chicken and shrimp stirfry with some veggies and honey garlic sauce. I love making dishes like this because it always gives us leftovers for the next day. Yum!
Day 7 of my #100happydays challenge, and I ended up being let off work early – which itself was a pretty happy moment. Curtis and I decided to use the rest of the afternoon to check out the Edmonton Pet Expo. There were puppies everywhere, and we even got to meet and talk to the foster mom of the kitten we are in the process of adopting!
Since I moved out of my apartment and am in a bit of a limbo waiting to take possession of our new place, my parents have been bunny-sitting Neville. I miss that little guy like crazy. So you can imagine my excitement at getting to see a bunch of bunnies today at the show! Not just bunnies that I got to hold and cuddle, but some really impressive ones that were running obstacle courses!
Today marks day 6 of my #100happydays challenge. Despite trying to find the happiness in each day, this has been an especially exhausting and trying week for me. Curtis has been doing his best to keep me relaxed and grounded. I love him so much for it. He is so supportive and understanding – and listens to me vent for as long as I need to without any interjection. This evening he pulled me out of the house and away from all the stresses for a few hours to take me out for a really lovely dinner at Lazia. Now that we are back home, and I am back to the grind, he is still by my side. He is always right by my side.